We grow stronger when we allow ourselves to feel and remember all of it. Suffering is a part of life, he tells his son-and so is joy, pleasure, and love. It’s the very connection with his father that helps Elio weather heartbreak, but the content of Dr. Don’t kill it and with it the joy you’ve felt. And before you know it, your heart is worn out, and, as for your body, there comes a point when no one looks at it, much less wants to come near it. How you live your life is your business, just remember, our hearts and our bodies are given to us only once. Something always held me back or stood in the way. I may have come close, but I never had what you two have. “He was good, and you were both lucky to have found each other, because…you too are good,” he says. In their striking final scene together, father approaches son with the truth as compassionately as possible, revealing that he knew about the affair and gently encouraging Elio to gain some perspective. “Nature has cunning ways of finding our weakest spot,” he says at one point, knowing that sooner or later we all take a hit. Perlman watches and waits-and keeps up the connection to his son, even when the teenager pulls away. Rather than intervening or lecturing, Dr. His father knows before Elio does that he is falling in love with Oliver. Mainly because Elio is far from isolated. In the seven-minute scene that closes the movie, a devastated Elio sits staring into a fire as tears roll down his face-but we know he’s going to be fine. Call Me by Your Name is about what happens in between those two events, as Elio and Oliver fall in love amid the crumbling, sun-drenched beauty of Lombardy, Italy.Īlong the way, we learn a great deal about resilience.
When 17-year-old Elio Perlman first meets doctoral student Oliver, they don’t seem to like each other very much-and when they part, it’s in pain.
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